A chance meeting on a mundane trip into Welshpool a couple of weeks ago and I met 93 year old Ethel. Through their teens and during the war years she was my late mother's best friend. She said that she had some photos and would I like them. Would I? You bet I would. A few days later I phoned her and she invited me round to her little bungalow. What an amazing beautiful lady, I could have spent hours talking to her. While my mother married and stayed at home looking after me and my sister, Ethel joined the ATS Auxiliary Territorial Services - a country girl, who'd never ventured further than the nearest town in her life she suddenly found herself being transported all over the world and doing all kinds of work, more than she could ever dream of. She told me about a poignant moment of how she was working in a canteen in Belgium when her brother who'd also signed up, unexpectedly turned up in the same canteen. You can imagine what that brief reunion in those times must have been like for them. Ethel showed me her little box of photos and I asked if I could take a digital snap of one of her in her ATS uniform.
'Course you can, but you don't want a photo of me.'
She chuckled at the thought
She was like that.
On the other side of the family - Curley was my hubs uncle. Until the last couple of years of his life, he lived and worked on the family farm he was born on and only ever moved out of the village on the rare day trip. The farthest he ever travelled was to the Motor Show in London but that's a story for another day. The outset of World War II must have radically changed so many people's lives and yet the farming community in a way lived life in almost oblivion - no television, no mobile phones - no phones even. News came by British Pathe screened at the cinema, radio bulletins or word of mouth. Just an ordinary day in Curley's life .......
Curley driving his Fordson Major EN27 |
On this particular cold joyless morning Curley's SF would not even grunt. An American lorry pulled up by the roadside gate. As it happened, the GI's were passing through towards Welshpool from their base camp at Queenshead, West Felton - a small village just outside Oswestry some 10 or so miles north of the farm. They'd called in for a few barn eggs and a cut or two from the side of bacon on the metal hook in the scullery. This being a popular custom of the time. Seeing Curley's predicament, they immediately offered to tow his tractor behind their vehicle to Reginald Tildsley's Garage six miles down the road on the outskirts of Welshpool. All roped up and away, the American Servicemen were not renowned for hanging about. Batting along, oblivious of the tractor in tow and several bendy stretches in the road - Curley had no way of attracting their attention and had to hang on for grim death. He reached Reginald Tildsley's ashen and in dire need of a clean pair of corduroys.
Oh Molly..I can just see that poor lad bouncing along behind on his tractor.
ReplyDeleteAre you going to post some of the old photos you got from your Moms friend?
It is lovely you ran into Ethel and got to see the photos.
ReplyDeleteA lovely story, Moll. I have already said how Curly looks almost identical to me when I was that age - obviously not as tall and fuller in the face, but almost the same, nevertheless.
ReplyDeleteIsn;t it wonderful to meet people who know your people?
ReplyDeleteLoved the story of Curley.....
How wonderful molly, I loved your tales and what a great time it was be it the war and al i think their friendships were super special.
ReplyDeleteMolly, you tell the best stories. we don't often enough hear of the stories from war that were heartwarming and uplifting, like these. love them. I would love nothing better than to spend an afternoon in Ethel's bungalow with the two of you! and you always make me laugh. thanks for the humor on this cold, dreary November day. happy day to you Molly.
ReplyDeleteLovely photos and a stories to go with them. I can't imagine what it would have been like to have an unexpected reunion with your brother.
ReplyDeleteEthel sounds like such a lovey lady.
Another great header photo Molly. Good to see that Ethel has a couple of ribbons on her chest.
ReplyDeleteTerrific story Molly.
ReplyDeleteYou seem very clued up on engines etc. I have just cancelled my RAC membership and will give you a call next time my jeep doesn't start ;-)
You are very lucky to have met up with Ethel and her stories. Shame that we don't get to hear more from our Senior Citizens.
ReplyDeleteAlways love a Curly Tale!
one of your best posts yet Moll
ReplyDeleteshe's a grand looking lady
"the spirit that won us the war"
Great stories! I really enjoyed reading about Ethel and Curley. As horrible as those times were, I love listening/reading about those brave, hardy folks.
ReplyDeleteYour header picture is outstanding.
Arleen
Thank you, all of you for your comments. Delores, Ethel gave me some precious photos of my mum. She died at the age of 31 and I was just 4. There were many empty spaces in my childhood and the wonderful thing is - is that the spaces are being filled even now 63 years later. I want to go and see Ethel again as soon as I'm able to talk to her about her experiences and what it was really like during the war. She is truly a remarkable lady. She looks amazingly fit and well though she did say that her legs are troubling her a bit. when I went to see her she had been busy pickling onions for the nurses who tend on her. Wouldn't she make a great friend for John's lovely Auntie Gladys.
ReplyDeleteGreat story as always Molly! I grew up driving temperamental tractors, so this gave me a good laugh!
ReplyDeleteKat :)
Great stories Molly!
ReplyDeleteI love your new header.
That's a funny story! I think some of us have had cars like Curly's tractor. Love Ethel's picture and your new header too. Very pretty.
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